I don't know if he wants to stay in the house and work on things or separate. I think it is so inconsiderate of him to not let me know where we stand. I would like to know either way,
He doesn't know either.
He is not giving you an answer to be mean, he just doesn't know.
Have you read other threads? If you have you should know this is very typical, this limbo land. And its a hard place to live in. But that's where your GALs and 180's come in.
What sort of work are you doing? I mean regarding your M. Do you have a counselor? Have you read DR? Have you read other M books? Have you read Sandi's 37 rules? Are you trying to flollow them?
Hwy, please take a step back from your sitch and your H. Find your center. Realize and absorb that this is not going away overnight.
But realize too that you are going to be ok. Especially if you do the hard work suggested on this site.
I'm hoping you'll answer some of the questions I have asked, and that you'll keep posting. Coming to this site and participating can be a form of therapy.
Take care
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
