what's up? She's in the house now so you hate us? Seriously, maybe posting here has to be a bit more delicate.
But we care and you're story is instructive.
NOT saying it's over or all done, but it IS instructive. Hope you are taking things slowly and that she does realize at some point, sooner rather than later,
you'll need NEW tools for problem solving.
Try Retrovaille, please....a workshop or retreat is going to help HER and you more than a MC who gets to hear the litany of past grievances again.
Both Essential Experience AND Retrovaille acknowledge the past BUT focus on what to do now, and from this day forward, to not repeat the mistakes. I honesty cannot see this working if you do not get new tools.
Do you? Does she?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016