Originally Posted By: jp787
More.

So W told me it wasn't about OM it was about all the other stuff between us.

To me, that^^ makes a lot of sense. You see that, right? I mean, OM is NOT "the issue". A symptom yes, a cause? No...

I agree with her.

In her text after she found out she cant text him anymore, then she says her mind goes to I guess I will work things out with JP. So all of what she said was a lie.

No it wasn't. You want an excuse to not hold yourself accountable?

And You assume all she tells D is correct? And that what she feels at a given moment is truth written in stone?


In text she said OM W saw it and wasnt happy. I dont think she knew, so either she did and was tired of them texting or more likely the text was inappropriate (regardless of what W told D in text) and it was still going on with him.

So she has me stating I dont want her talking to him and now his wife, so she now will never let him go in her mind.

I need to go to bed, or I will open my stupid mouth.



Don't open it. AND JP, don't get amnesia.

You are in no position to judge your w's present behavior.

You don't have to like it or accept it. But you are in NO position to comment upon it or judge it.

Back off and stop snooping....for real.


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