I'm curious as to when this all went down, did you go to them to ask them to talk to their daughter about her dating your husband at the time?

If so and they did the we don't want to get involved, shame on them then because now that he is causing THEM problems they call you his ex.

I don't buy it that just wanted you to know about his troubles I'm sure its now he making trouble for us let's see what his ex might do to help us.