Thank you mizjjd it is going to be hard but I understand that my situation will not be solve over night and since I do want to make my marriage work I will have to be patient with my H and wait until he is ready to move forward with our relationship or if not how we can move forward without our relationship. But in the meantime I will refocused my time to relearning what will make me happy for myself And I need to spend more time with our two sons.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013