Thank you I will go down to my local library and see if they have The book you have suggested to read. And I will take step back to let H have time and space for himself. I know its going to be hard but I really want to save mg marriage I will have to do it. I have made couple of plans for myself to make me happy and to move forward And to rediscover who I am And what I want.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013