I can be a smart as$ with the best of them. LOL! I knew what you meant. No worries.

J, we only know what you post. And we base our answers on that. But I know that there is so much more to things than that.

So, really, only you know what is best for your sitch. You know your wife best. You know yourself best.

You will figure this out.

It takes as long as it takes.

I am just anxious for you to get to the good parts. smile