My h treats my young kids similarly. He thinks when they don't follow his precise game plan they are misbehaving instead of just being kids.

My kids are much young but I see a very similar need to control their normal kid or teen behavior

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13