When she is receptive to me, when we talk and it sure feels like we are sharing with each other. That she is trusting me to share what she is going through, what she feels and is going on in her life. The last thing I want to do is say, that's nice but I need to focus on me.
Its like she is starting to trust me that she can talk to me without me making her feel bad, yes I know I am not there or close, but I am improving. It will be a long road for her to trust me. I dont want to stop that with her.
I feel if I say it needs to wait until I am better than it may not end up well. I want to gain her trust while working on me.
Can I do that? Is all in saying to break off everything with her and hope that there may be a chance to work on us later?
Trust me I get that we wont make it if we both don't change, yet it is so hard to walk away from her saying she is starting to trust me.
I don't know the balance for that or if there is one
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
