Thank you everyone for your encouragement with my situation. To littlegto I think the reason why we lacked on intimatcy in our marriage is we had different schedules and just trying to raise a family. I know that is no excuse to fail in the intimacy between us. We should have made time for ourself. Now as I look back on it I should have made the time to show my H the love he deserve. And vice versa. I just hope when he is ready to work on our marriage we will be able to work things out. But until then I'll I can do is be patient .
Anyway I wanted to share this with everyone I had seen this on one of my other sites I like to go on:
The past should be left in the past because it can destroy your future. Live your life for what tomorrow has to offer, not for what yesterday has taken away.
I thought this was a good message for me.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013