That we are not able to communicate with each other in a healthy way.
I do not think there is anything wrong with saying this.
That I need more time to work on me. (that makes me feel bad like I am saying you can't come home because "I" am not ready)
And you ARE not ready. Why would that make you feel bad to say it?
She asked for this, J. And if she comes home, there will not trouble in the not too distant future, that is for sure.
That she is not wanting to come home for the right reasons, she is not ready. (I wont say this as I know it isnt my place)
Did she ask to come home?No
Anything else? and so I ask why Nvm and still answer her or not?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
W, I respected your decision to want to leave. And while you have been gone, I have been doing a lot of thinking. I realized some things. I have come to understand that I was unable to communicate with you in a healthy way.
And I realized that I have some things I need to work on. I have been trying really hard to do that. But I still have a long way to go. I think the very best way for me to get to where I need to be is to focus on what I need to do.
And that is what I mean when I say we are not ready to be together. If we are to be in the future, it needs to be different than it was in the past.
Or something like that. What do you think? Let's hash it out. ``````````````
J, did you see how she responded when you said you have fears? She withdrew and wanted to lay down. She was feeling pressure. I have to say that she is confusing. That is why it is necessary for you to let her figure out herself.
W, Over the last several months I have doing a lot of thinking and one big thing taht I have come to realize is that I was unable to commuicate with you in a healthy way.
I have discovered that I have many things that I need to work on (for me?) and I have been working very hard on them, yet I still have a long way to go. I think the very best way for me to get to where I need to be is to focus on what I need to do.
And that is what I mean when I say we are not ready to be together. If we are to be in the future, then it has to be different than it was in the past.
---------------- Or she needed a nap before work?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
what about her "NVM" at the end when I didnt respond back after a few min.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
