W, I respected your decision to want to leave. And while you have been gone, I have been doing a lot of thinking. I realized some things. I have come to understand that I was unable to communicate with you in a healthy way.
And I realized that I have some things I need to work on. I have been trying really hard to do that. But I still have a long way to go. I think the very best way for me to get to where I need to be is to focus on what I need to do.
And that is what I mean when I say we are not ready to be together. If we are to be in the future, it needs to be different than it was in the past.
Or something like that. What do you think? Let's hash it out. ``````````````
J, did you see how she responded when you said you have fears? She withdrew and wanted to lay down. She was feeling pressure. I have to say that she is confusing. That is why it is necessary for you to let her figure out herself.
