Originally Posted By: jp787


That we are not able to communicate with each other in a healthy way.

I do not think there is anything wrong with saying this.

That I need more time to work on me. (that makes me feel bad like I am saying you can't come home because "I" am not ready)

And you ARE not ready. Why would that make you feel bad to say it?

She asked for this, J. And if she comes home, there will not trouble in the not too distant future, that is for sure.

That she is not wanting to come home for the right reasons, she is not ready. (I wont say this as I know it isnt my place)

Did she ask to come home?