"It wasn't possible to talk before I had to go."

But you had time to drop your stuff off at the house? BS, there was time. And you should have talked to her about it before you took stuff back home.

"W will not talk about anything except kids and logistics."

Then you know where she's at. Why on earth did you think things were getting better between the two of you at such an early stage?

"She will only talk about R or money in front of a therapist."

This isn't about your R or money. It's her feeling safe which you should have talked to her about before moving stuff back in.

"I did tell her I couldn't afford the apt anymore. This isn't acting out."

You told her in casual conversation.

YOu didn't tell her when you were moving back in or if you were and what your plan was going to be.

"We weren't supposed to have this conversation until next week in therapy. I don't have a plan. We will talk about everything in therapy next week."

DO NOT WAIT! Come up with a definite plan so that it can be discussed at T. TAke the lead.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER