The piecing forum can be slow, although there will be others to come along and support you through this.
I wanted to let you know I'm about to go GAL and will respond more later.
For now, a bit of homework for you:
+ explain how you think that #3 is a result of #2. Consider this carefully, reminding yourself that while there is cause and effect, the effect is always our choice. Why do you think YOU CHOSE to react with #3?
+ On the LL, how can you show your love in a way that is not pressure and how can you KNOW you are being loved by her?
+ on #7, you are most likely correct that she does not have the tools you have. How do you think you might address #7 in a DB / SBT way?
