And then there's the possibility that, now that you are sober, your W thinks that she does not have to protect you any more. Some spouses stay in a R for co-dependent reasons.
I can really see this in my sitch, we are so co-dependent. She may not know who she is now that things have changed.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
None of that really matters at this point, but you asked. Those are SOME reasons. Really, only your W knows why she's doing this. It may or may not have anything to do with your past as an alcoholic or your current sobriety.
In the end this ^^^ is all that matters
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
