Why are you dating? I want to say a whole bunch about that, but I won't. I want to hear your reason.
So based on the conversations that you've had with Chuck, he specifically talked to you about:
+ detaching (emotionally from her words and actions; yet still love her) + 180s (change things about yourself that are valid issues; which shows you are capable of changing in positive ways) + GAL (getting out and not moping around the house) + boundaries / being assertive + being mysterious (pursuit / distance pattern)
I'm not sure what the "half agree" thing is. I'm guessing Chuck mentioned to listen and validate, even if you don't necessarily agree.
If the above list is pretty accurate, what are some ways that you have been working on the work list from Chuck?
