Interesting "update". I think I would've been as freaked as you. Weird to think that even if our sitches ended in divorce and our Ex's were long gone that something like this could indeed happen.
I think you handled yourself well. I also think that maybe BM is right and they have figured out now, what really happened, and in there own way were making amends with it.
Take care in the new life you have created yourself!
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life