Yes, we read that back in the fall and have identified our languages. We haven't really had a chance to use them as we've been on the separation / divorce road for a little while.
For her fears, she is afraid of being the reason we fail. She knows that i would walk this path forever. I think she needs more time to process her emotions in this regard before we can really begin. I think her nerves are getting the best of her after we might have gotten a bit ahead of ourselves over last weekend talking about everything (the future).
KD - I'd be happy to provide a good bit of background if that would help. I really appreciate your questions.
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Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17