Kaffe, I can't say he had me try specific things, more coached me on how to "lovingly detach" when the "alien wife" would show up and start talking. As in just kinda half agree with what she's saying and dint take anything she says personal. Talked about without knowing my W, he knows 2 things about her, that she thinks she knows me, and that ill never change, so I need to respond to her in the opposite way that she thinks I will. And not letting her walk in my cause she has always gotten her way in our marriage. Which is one of my faults. Me wanting to keep the peace and really not caring about little decisions turned me into an appeaser in her eyes and she lost respect for me and then lost the spark. Makes a lot of sense cause I really did not much else wrong. I cook, clean, laundry, watched my kids... In a way I wants enough of the brawny man so to say. We only had 3 sessions and I wish I could afford more and maybe at some point will be able to. He was big on taking care of myself, trying new things, make myself a mystery to her.... That sort of stuff.
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship
