i agree with oldtimer ellie. he sounds like he is actively working his program and living the life that comes with active sobriety. i do not see a red flag there at all. if i was a woman, i would appreciate the lengths he is going to better himself. and appreciate his transparency and honesty. 3 yrs is quite an accomplishment. i am a little biased however..lol
betsey-
what would you like to know? i met her off of pof. the punk rock girl i talked about. we talked a bit. nothin serious. i got sick of the wierdos and deleted all my profiles. she was really curious as to why. told her the truth. that i am interested in dating. sick of the wierdos. she could relate. so then we decided to go out for dinner. came back to my house and had fun. the next day she asked me to be her boyfriend. after laughing for a bit (on the inside) i said sure..lol anyway. she came over last night and we hung out. i went to work for some safety training for a few hours this morning and came home. woke her up and we spent the day together just having some relaxed fun. went to chinese, walmart and ice cream. then she dropped me off so i could get my kids. was a really good day.
