Originally Posted By: Takevowsserious

I am sorry that your sister experienced the loss of a baby also. I can say that it forever changed me. Maybe such a small change, not detectable even by those closest to me. But it's there.

Thank you. I will never forget that time in our lives, T. My sister is forever changed, too.

But if they are continually meeting each others needs this way, what would ever get them to stop?

Because that gets old, T, and if it is built on neediness and deceit and broken people, it cannot be sustained. It does not have the stuff of long term relationships. Eventually it caves in.

I can believe that he doesn't remember all the times they were together. I would imagine a lot of the past 17 months is just a big blur. But unfortunately, I think a five day beach trip is going to be a little tougher to forget frown

Oh, my xh went on long trips, T. Some lovely ones. To hear him tell it, they were wrought with drama and stress.


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Happy happy birthday to your son!~!

I asked him, and he did it. Quite gladly, actually. Didn't act weird or strange afterwards, in fact, he was even more friendly than usual.

He even shared some you tube videos he thought were funny, and are you ready for this, let me hold his sacred phone lol!

Good stuff there, T. ^^^^^

But I know ho bag will be there tonight, and who knows where they will go afterwards. Boo frown

Often not at all what you think so best not to go there, sweetie. Doesnt serve you well.