Hey Blue! I'm here on a Friday night! Nice to meet you. LOL! I've got some GAL activities planned for the next two days and had 2 activities mid-week so tonight is downtime. What about you? How's your GAL going?
I went back and read your thread. No do not call her. Do not text her. In reading your thread she has been asking you for space for weeks and you have not been giving it to her. The more you pursue the more you will push her away.
How about a 180 on this friend? We can come up with all sorts of reasons to contact our S's. I had one in my head today myself! But I didn't act on it. It was just an excuse.
I also caught that you go to the house twice a day to care for the dog? Can your W or kids not help you with this? It seems that going there everyday twice a day would really impede your ability to detach and focus on yourself. Is this an excuse to see your W everyday?
Time is NOT running out. But you have to SLOW down. What if you focused on you. Spent time with your D's, and left all non-kid related contact with your W for MC?
She "took your call"... she "made an excuse and hung up". She's asking for space. You have got to give it to her.
What are you going to do this weekend? How can you occupy your mind and time while doing something for yourself?
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
