It's an old argument of whether love is a feeling or love is an action. Using the English word of love, which in a dictionary is a noun and described as "strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties", then love is a feeling. One can ACT LOVINGLY, which is of course an action. English is somewhat limited in describing love or being loving.
That said, I think that the Greek had some of the best word definitions which can be understood by most (from Wikipedia):
Agápe "often refers to a general affection or deeper sense of "true love" rather than the attraction suggested by "eros.""
Éros "is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing. The Modern Greek word "erotas" means "intimate love;" however, eros does not have to be sexual in nature."
Philia "means affectionate regard or friendship in both ancient and modern Greek. It is a dispassionate virtuous love, a concept developed by Aristotle. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality and familiarity."
Storge "means "affection" in ancient and modern Greek. It is natural affection, like that felt by parents for offspring. Rarely used in ancient works, and then almost exclusively as a descriptor of relationships within the family."
How could you SHOW your W that you love her, using actions?
