Portia, It was never my intention to tell you deserved what you got. I was merely pointing out that you've been on the fence a bit trying to decide whether to text him or not. I agree w/you in the fact that his response may not have been any different than it would have been in July. I'm sorry my posting came across in a negative way...it was never my intention to do that.
It mad me so angry to see the response he texted back to you. After all you've been through and have been there listening to him while he's been going through some things, he could have done just a little better in responding. How much effort would it have taken to say, "Portia, how are you doing?". I realize that when they are in mlc anything may pop out of their mouths...but I had hoped he would have responded just a bit differently.
Portia, I am very, very sorry that he responded the way he did. I do hope that he will contact you again and act more like an adult, but there is no telling where he's at right now.
I do hope that you have some nice plans for the weekend.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
