Thanks Cianna - For the most part, I try to not mention her and have not confronted him on everything. I will give it another try
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Pack his bags and take it to the OW's house. You need to do something drastic to wake him up.
What do I do about his daughter? She is almost 17 and lives with us full time.
If I did this it would be totally out of character for me. I am afraid of doing this. What if it didn't work? He could just grab his bags and come back home. Then what?
Also I feel like I am just giving him permission to live with her. Right now he is still coming home at the usual dinner time and leaving for work at the usual work time. The disappearing act was not as prominent but I think this is because his daughter lives with us.
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Why did he claim he D'd in the first place? You can see that he never worked on himself during those other marriages and is still blaming others (YOU) for his happiness.
Omitting the first marriage. I think he D'd before because he was unhappy. I know they went to marriage counseling but his ex really is a bit off her rocker. I get to see how she treats her daughter and it is down right mean.
