Hi PatientMan~~ I can very much understand where you are right now. I have the same feelings about my H that I am stuck in right now. I am trying very hard to work thru the fact that H is having affair with a JW. I too feel that forgiveness should not have conditions but then in my messed up mind I rationalize that he should not have been able to give himself a condition to go outside our M and look for what he had right in front of him. Only you can decide what you are willing to do and what you can tolerate. I know for myself as hard as it is I want so much to try and stand and work on things. I need to GAL and get my PMA working. We are here walking this road with you. Sending you hugs and strength. Take care of yourself.
