Well, really ask yourself why you want him to leave. Is it because it's for you? Is your life better when he is goes? Is it to feel like you have some say in the sitch? Just to "hurt" him or get him to see something?

Start journaling about that. More will be realived to you and you will know when you need the space or if you don't. Don't rush any big decisions.

Keep sitting on those texting hands, and like I said, try to have no expectations or read into what H might be thinking.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D