It's OK to vent, but please don't take your frustration and anger out on her.
If you want an annulment, that's one thing. It would be up to the priest to decide whether it is OK. I'll likely seek same eventually, once D final. Although my W never converted so I'm not sure how that will work.
Anyhow, the point is, I suspect that you wanted to poke her by telling her (so quickly) that you want an annulment.
You've only just did mediation and I'm guessing it's not over already, unless the two of you have signed. Even so, the D papers still need to be completed, filed, etc.
So just cool your jets and take some time to take care of your own needs and pain and get your feet back under you.
Get back to your GAL and 180s and keep working on your detachment.
