oohhh El Hubbo is reminding me of my W right now. LOL! (pardon my Spanglish... it's been in my head since you typed about tacos!)
I agree with Tallula. Give it a couple of hours and then text back a brief acceptance. He reminded me of when my W earlier this week texted me a picture of my dog that's with her and she said "...'dog's name' is missing you!", while she was with the AP. I had the same wonderland experience! Really? What?!?
Well... he reached out to you on your anniversary. He asked you to spend time with him the day after her returns. Just be in that for a while. Keep your power to make choices. We observe. We don't pursue. We respond. We don't react.
Great job feeling your way through all the tears this morning!!!
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13