I second what Bond says.

But, I would stop all contact with OMW. I had OWH contact me, and I ended up blocking him of FB and everywhere I could. I made it perfectly clear that I want NC. I think you should do the same. It's a year later, not happening right now. You don't need someone else to mess with your emotions, we have enough in our brains to do that on our own smile


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D