Thx KD. I am reading up on MLC now and I am learning this must be very hard on her too.
I'm finally learning through alanon to stop taking things personal. It's not about me. I think your self esteem gets so beat down during this process you actually start to believe it is about you.
I am talking to my alanon sponsor in a few minutes. He told me point blank to put off making any life changing moves. He told me to fix myself and see what happens. I'm calling him now
