If I begin to feel overwhelmed I go for a long walk- there is a point during a walk where you achieve clarity (I know im done when I start singing)
no more naps- no more running away or sticking your head in the sand
confidence comes from wins and the easiest wins are ones that YOU have control over.
JP- I love you man. You are stuck in a mindset where your only success is dependent on how your wife feels...so its a different kind of begging- a quagmire. your trying to change while trying to keep things the same- with your wife.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
