I think it's all ok when you're dating. Sometimes it just takes awhile to not only figure out what you want, but to let things happen naturally and both parties see each other as they really are.
After all, isn't that what dating is all about? I try not to take anything at this stage too seriously. There is plenty of time for that, if you want to go down that path.
I'd say enjoy the moment and have fun.
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."