Haven't posted my background, but you can get the highlights in my signature line. Classic story that's all too familiar here with a WAW who was a SAHM for nearly 10 years and me the workaholic. Yadda yadda yadda and let's get divorced. That process was all under way until last week when out of the blue we were texting and she was questioning everything, so maybe we should try.
Looking for some advice on how to keep the pressure to a minimum on my WAW. She's feeling completely horrible for giving up on our marriage and she believes that she's the only one that will mess this up (our potential reconciliation). We're seeing a LMFT who we both really enjoy and I'm hoping my wife will start seeing an individual counselor as I think she needs it.
I am in absolutely NO HURRY whatsoever and continue to profess this to her. Just looking for anyone's comments on the start to piecing and not rushing things into oblivion!!!
Many thanks,
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
