Howdy yall........ Ive detached to a point where I realize that my W and MIL are both certifiable flakes.
Its not close to detachment - but im able to see cracks where I once saw only perfection
As written in the "idiots guide to midelife crisis" Its bad enough that they lie but its especially hurtful when they are bad at it and they always are.........
So yesterday my wife and her boytoy flew off to the west coast together for a lovely 12 day trip.
D3 and I will be left alone- its not often that one can say 12 days with a 3 yearold is a vacation- but it will be in my case.
Boytoy and W have been together for 3 months. a few days back They daycare called and said they would need to close the next day due to illness. My W took it immediately as an opportunity to try to introduce D3 to boytoy. She knew it was an important day for me- I couldnt miss work that day- so she just thought it would be perfectly fine if she and the homewrecker picked up D3, took her to the playground and then out to dinner........
She would do this to make it easier on me- then boytoy/homewrecker and W would drop D3 off and head to the airport together.
^&*( YOU! Ill get a babysitter and make this work myself!!!!
I told W my action plan and she blurt out "If you dont want me to spend time with D3 just tell me"......."This has nothing to do with D3 its YOUR problem"
My response " I WANT YOU to spend lots of time with D3. That bond is so important but I have a problem with you introducing a new man in your life that you met 3 months ago"
" I have not stopped or even attempted to dissuade you from living your adventure....but its YOUr adventure....D3 doesnt and shouldnt go along for the ride"
She just kept repeating "if you dont want me to see D3 just tell me"........Scary- almost wanting me to say something.
Anyway,
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
