I agree ^^^ respond just to FIL.

Originally Posted By: in_it
So, right now I just need to keep telling myself that I do not need to start a confrontation when he gets home. Not to text him. Not to call him.

Fabulous!

Originally Posted By: in_it
That I don't really know if I want him to leave or not. These thoughts of wanting him gone have been lingering for a couple of weeks. I think these emotions are just strengthening them.

That's very insightful. You don't really know right now. Just keep talking yourself through the emotions and make no decisions until the waves recede and you become more clear.

All you have to do right now... is right now. What do you want for lunch? It's lunchtime.

Small decisions today. smile Save the big stuff for later!!

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T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
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