Well,

My D is final and I am still thinking about my ex wife. I am currently still GAL, taking up new hobbies and trying out the dating seen (mainly to keep my mind off my ex). I probably already know the answer to this question but I am wondering what I should do from here.

Do I continue to not initiate any contact with my ex?

Do I initiate contact once in a while just to say hi?

I obviously do still care for her and would give anything to have her back but I do not want to ruin any chances that I may have which atre prob slim to none at this point.

Her birthday is at the end of July, do I contact her then?


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13