Even today when my H will bring up something I have done that is harmful, I find myself thinking "Really?!?! REALLY!! You have been lying to me for years!!! And I hurt your feelings when I did, such and such.." But then I take a deep breath, and think "He's right. that was harmful."
I don't want who I am & my actions to be dependant on how I'm treated by each individual.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
