With regard to feeling so "in tune", as you wrote in the other thread, with someone through sex and exploring someone physically, mentally and emotionally, how do you think it would have affected your experience if your wife never had an orgasm and never let you touch her in a way that might help her have one?
When I was a teenager with no sexual experience, I had very romantic notions of what it would be like to share intense physical erotic feelings in a context of being very much in love. The reality, at least for me, has come up short of that notion. Perhaps I'm a bit like a color-blind man who's never heard of color blindness. I know something is off, but I'm not sure what I'm missing or how much. I usually experienced sex with my wife as only me having intense erotic feelings, and my wife only observing and accommodating at best.
