I've got to shake the hurt. I think what's hurting the most is the fact that we haven't communicated since Tuesday. That's not like him. It [censored].
When I asked him about not telling me when he was coming home after D7 told me he went cold. Nothing. I tried to touch base a few times on Wednesday & nothing. It hurts & is very confusing.
I think I want him to leave.
Ok, first off. Breath! Cry! post here. But don't DO anything yet.
As far as the card, don't give it to him unless he gets you one. I did nothing. My H texted me Happy Anniversary as soon as he woke up that day, I texted back "You too".
They run hot, they run cold. It s u c k s, but its the nature of the beast. Focus on you. Take care of you today. Maybe he does need to leave, maybe he doesn't. But you shouldn't decide anything when you are so emotional. Feel it. Don't take action until you are waaaaay less emotional. Then you will know it's your truth.
I hurts when they don't call. Let him be the one to contact you. Try not to worry about how to act when he comes home yet. He isn't home. Just feel the sadness
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
