Thanks everyone! I am preparing the answer to her complaint. W has gone for a no fault quickie divorce.
I am just caught in a quagmire on what to do and how to proceed.
Keep in mind that D is not the end of things. If you're not up on Crimson's sitch you might read his threads, it wasn't until after D that things started turning around. D has a way of making the WAS feel liberated and free, it takes all the pressure off. That in turn can allow them to see the LBS in a different light.
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Going diving this weekend to GAL. Doing my best to not be depressed, but damn is it hard.
Good, you're doing the right thing! And keep in mind that you have every right to be down/ depressed over this. Own your feelings! If you feel like crying then have a good cry! My W let me know about a month ago that she would be filing after the kids got out of school for the year. I had myself a good cry that night, first time in many months. The next day I felt tons better and within a few days I was right back to my normal happy self. So own those feelings, but do continue your GAL activities, it's the quickest path to healing.
