Well... seems I will soon be homeless. The offer on our house is dependant on me being out by 24 July. As my partner seems to already be settled elsewhere it is now up to me to get me act together. Although I will get cash from the sale it wont be enough for me to buy a home outright, and as I haven't had a full time job for 10 years I will not be able to buy another home yet. Renting here is difficult with pets - and the last thing I want to do right now is give up my dog. So, need to get a plan.
One major problem with this is my family. While they are several 100 miles away I have not told them the whole story of my current sitch. They know partner is depressed, but everything else (i.e all the MLC cr*p) they haven't a clue about, including the fact he hasn't been here for more than one night a week, and not even that recently, for several months.
Moving day will be just a few day after the anniversary of BD!