also LA my wife has distanced herself from me yet again. She goes to bed everynight without saying boo to me. Even if we talk like last night it is par for the course
Yep. She got panicky, engaged you in talk, you talked, she was satisfied, now she must back off.
This is a dance lol!
My stock phrase when H and I talk is "Can you clarify that?" I don't want to misrepresent, misunderstand or read into anymore
I also like how you re initiated the convo and the fact that she was receptive. We all have our expectations and the fact that you redefined what the conversation was and the point you were trying to make, says a lot. The fact that she responded to it tells me it was the right thing to do
