Thx for comment it is almost comical wife eats dinner with me yesterday and talks my ear off and today ice box txting men.
Alanon group is a perfect fit for me and just what I need for my codependency issues. Great support and glad I went
They told me keep coming and I will recover. They basically told me living with my wife during MLC is like living with a dry drunk
No different advice take focus off her and fix you.
They did say something a little different. They said if I feel disrespected and hurt by wife hiding txt from OM then it's ok to say it and walk away and not care about her reactions to it
