My XW was the same way. She would be adamant about divorce, but then enthusiastically introduce me to coworkers or clients at work as her husband. I didn't get it either.
Just remember you are on the picnic blanket. As he comes out of his castle and sometimes sits next to you, just keep enjoying your picnic. Whether or not he is there doesn't matter.
I am sorry you are having a rough couple of days. You'll pull out of it!
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
