Well... my PMA just went in the toilet.. H just withdrew $3000 from the only account that I have access to.

Several reasons for this; 1. Trying to seperate money, he cant pull me off the joint account so, he will just take the cash out and open another account. 2. Retainer for attorney. 3. Deposit on a place for he and GF. 4. For GF, to pay her bills, gives her cash so I cant see that hes giving her money.

Im thinking 1, or 2, possibly both.

Now, now Im panicking...

M:42 H:40
T: 18yrs M: 14yrs
Open R/M: 18 years
D19 S24 From PM
1st S 6 '08 Reconciled 8 '08
H BD, separated 5/9/13
Filed for S on 6/12/13
H committed to monogamous GF now