I'll reply more later, but I just wanted to say that I'm SO torn right now. It seems that some are saying to "let go" completely which in my mind means no initiating contact. Other are saying it's OK???

Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...