Yes you did read that right. I have pretty much concluded from her extreme narcissitic behaviors that she wanted a "wedding" not a "marriage". And I think you are right. She was never 100% sure that she made the right decision to marry. Therefore bolted when she had a chance, flipped all the blame on me to feed her decision and make it seem valid. I still cannot get over how someone could have a 25,000 wedding in which her parents gave her the wedding of her dreams, and then just give up so easy and move on. It is an extremely selfish decision I believe. She has no regards for anyone else's feelings except for herself.
Kee,
When we are dealing with this type of person I do not believe the fog lifts until they themselves recognize that they to had a part in the displacement of the marriage. Unfortunatly we are dealing with spouses that shift ALL the blame to validate thier decisions to run from thier problems. It is seriously a mental issue that only a professional can deal with. There is nothing we can do to change this behavior. It is a pattern and until they realize it......it will continue to happen in thier lives. Sounds crazy, but I am almost okay with her leaving me because I know she is not working on her issues. She will bring the same mentality and the next relationship she is in will not last. I on the other hand have humbled myself, admitted my faults and am seeking help currently to be a better man, father, friend and future husband that appreciated and deserves me for WHO I AM!!!
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
