Okay, another part of my situation I haven't brought up here yet.
At my party last weekend a younger D'ed dad came to my party (friend of friends) & brought his son.
I drank a bit too much & well, ended up flirting w him a bit. It felt good and I know it was VERY innocent.
Since then we have texted each other 3 different nights. All very innocent...who's your favorite bball team, etc. But, it does make me feel like that when I'm ready| (which I'm not) that there will be someone out there who will be interested in me.
I feel like this guy is just a new friend who has time on his hands to text-period. He is nice & I crave the adult communication in the evenings. And, of course it doesn't hurt that a younger, cute guy is giving me a little attention.
I want nothing more from this & so far I have NO indication that he does either.
Is this dangerous territory or is this okay????
I think it's dangerous. Things start off innocent, then feelings develop, then "it just happened." If you are not okay with that possibility, then don't.
Very humbly,
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
